I was honestly scared that my relationship with my mom was not going to survive this latest fiasco, but not only is it going to, I think things are going to be better than ever.

I am so thankful God gave me the wisdom to not react like I normally do but instead show her I value our relationship enough to deal with our disagreements. And I am in absolute shock that God’s given her peace about my choices. It shouldn’t be such a surprise, but I was so sure her beliefs about alcohol were too ingrained in her for her to be okay with it.

  • my sister: oh my god
  • me: what?
  • my sister: i just realized something
  • me: ?
  • my sister: gaston is a nice guy.
  • me: ...? um, no, sorry, he's an asshole.
  • my sister: no, no, no, gaston is a 'nice guy'. think about it. he spends the whole beginning of the movie trying to be friendly to belle. everyone else in that town thinks she's a bookish freak with a crazy man for a father, but gaston like, talks to her and sort of tries to take an interest in her activities and compliments her and stuff with the complete 100% expectation that she's going to pay him back by being in a relationship with him. he tunes out what she actually says because he doesn't really think of her as a person, just a pretty trophy who should react to him the right way if he does the right things.
  • me: huh
  • my sister: and then when she hooks up with someone else, he gets all angry and shouty and insists that this other guy is a monster and she's lost her damn mind because she was supposed to fall for HIM, not someone else, and then he goes and stirs up the townsfolk into an angry mob and turns the whole thing into a witch hunt over his wounded pride.
  • me: O_O
  • my sister: gaston is a nice guy.
"I have ruined relationships for fear of ruining those relationships."
Neil Hilborn (via theflowersinmyheart)
Falling In Love At A Coffee Shop
Landon Pigg

I think that possibly, maybe I’m falling for you
Yes there’s a chance that I’ve fallen quite hard over you.
I’ve seen the waters that make your eyes shine
Now I’m shining too

It’s hard to talk to my mom about fixing things because she cries and blames herself and I feel like a horrible person for making her sad by bringing it up.

sassclassandasmartass:

"Ooh this is so cute!" I say and then look around and realize I’ve accidentally meandered into the maternity section at Target again

chasingtrophywhitetails:

Does anyone else reply to a text mentally but not physically then forgets to actually reply all together or is that just me

I have done a lot of things to make my mother upset during my 21 years.

But aside from the time that she told me she didn’t want to spend Christmas with me, this is the worst.

Of everything she said to me today, from you are ruining your life, to you’re becoming a part of the world, to your heart is hard, to you’re throwing away the call God’s given you, to what you’re doing disgusts me, to “I didn’t raise you this way”, to you’re becoming like so and so…. Out of everything, what hurt me the most was when she told me I’m a bad influence on my little sister.

And what is she upset about? Me drinking.

Honestly our screwed up relationship has and will do more damage than the minuscule amount of alcohol I drink.

purgaytorycas:

princess-island:

does the supernatural fandom have a gif for tfios?

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